General Boundaries

Written and Edited by Sokka Silang & Egg White Shell on behalf of the system

Updated: March 16, 2026

What do you go by collectively?

We go by the Jellybeans system or Jeremiah!

How should people refer to you?

Jeremiah and any nicknames derivative of that are appreciated! However, if an alter asks you to refer to them as their name, please use that instead.

Who in your system are people most likely to interact with online?

Check out our Introductions Page!

What should people do if they don't know who is in front?

Ask! We usually will tell you who is in front but there are times where we are unsure.

Is it okay for people to ask if they can talk to someone who isn't in front at the moment?

Yes, you may. However, be respectful to the person/people in front by at least greeting them before you do so. If we are in distress, intentional switching is more difficult.

If someone talks to one of you, will other system members be aware of the conversation? Will they be actively watching, or just able to remember it later?

All of us remember most, if not all, conversations. Depending on the alter, it may take longer to clearly remember.

Adding onto the above- if multiple system members will be aware of a conversation, will they want to chime in? If someone wants to speak to a system member one-on-one, what expectations can they have and how should they communicate this?

As you may have noticed, certain alters like to front when they are mentioned. If you have an issue with someone, ask if they can front and wait. We will accept passed messages but please do not insult any of us to other alters. We all share general memory.

How out are you? What should people do when talking to people who don't know you're plural?

Welp. This is a page open to the public so technically anyone who knows us can see- In general, if you do approach us in real life, please treat us as just a person named Jeremiah unless we actively discuss our systemhood.

Do you have any internal communication difficulties, memory issues, switch triggers, etc that others should be mindful of?

We do tend to switch to a random alter whenever we get tired or overwhelmed.

Your stance on being asked questions?

Ask away! Unless we are overwhelmed or you are asking out of ill faith, we will most likely be willing to answer.

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Based on Plural Etiquette Guide